A
few tips that help:
- Minimizing
the yelling
- Understanding
what's going on
- Know how
to redirect
- Set clear,
simple boundaries
- Don't fear
timeouts
- Be
consistent with your child
Don't
Yell So Much
Even though yelling seems
like a good way to let out frustration, it is less likely to bring out better
behavior. Too much yelling and other harsh measures can have a negative impact
on how your child's brain develops. Taking a minute to calm down before
disciplining your child can work wonders.
Understand
What's Going On
If you're attuned to your
child's needs, you can likely guess what may be going on at any given time.
Understand why your child is acting out can help you take steps to resolve the
problem. In many cases, better awareness helps you prevent problems before they
start.
Redirect
Your Child in Creative Ways
Redirecting a child in a
positive way can help eliminate a lot of bad behavior. Try reading to a child
who is whining or get a child who is being pushy or grabbing to do some
physical activity. Redirection always needs to be done in a loving way.
Know
How to Set Boundaries
All children need boundaries,
but they need to be simple for better retention. Remind your child of these
"house rules" every day. Make sure you praise your child when he or
she sticks to the rules. Understand that this is an age where your child is
likely to test out how much they can get away with.
Sometimes
Everyone Needs a Timeout
A timeout, possibly one
minute for each year, can distract your child from bad behavior and give them
time to think. If the bad behavior focuses on a specific toy, consider giving
your child a timeout from using the toy. Make sure your child has access to the
toilet and doesn't have access to toys or games.
Consistency
is Key
Make sure you address bad
behavior consistently if you don't want it to continue. Don't expect your child
to follow the rules one day and let them off the next. Above all, use positive
methods to correct bad behavior.At Mission Valley Montessori, our teachers work with children starting at the toddler phase. They continue throughout their elementary years, learning through play-based activities that are self-guided and self-directed. To learn how to help your toddler through this challenging phase, contact us today to see the positive impact Montessori education can have on your child.